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“I’m a gay man looking for someone I both like and fancy. Why is it so difficult?”

I’m a single man in my mid-30s. I was something of a monogamist throughout my 20s with only three relationships by 30. I’ve now been single for six years. I’ve had one relationship that I felt very happy in, but … Continue reading

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“Shall I expose my conman husband and other lying, cheating, abusive gay men?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Perspective

I’m 47, married at 30 and thought I’d made a great choice in my husband. I didn’t go for looks or superficial things like some of my friends. I didn’t need love at first sight. I chose someone who seemed … Continue reading

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“I am gay. Why can’t I kick start my relationship with my wife?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Perspective

At the age of 29 I was totally in love and knew I’d found the girl I wanted to marry. We had careers and so on, but finally married when I was 40 and she was 35. By the time … Continue reading

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“My husband is addicted to gay porn and meets men in saunas. Is he gay?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Viewpoint

I am a 38-year-old woman, married for three years, with three children under the age of four. Six weeks ago I discovered that my husband has been chatting to men online via Gaydar and other similar sites, and emailing one … Continue reading

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“I’m gay and in love with my ‘heteroflexible’ best friend. Is he interested?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Viewpoint

I’m a gay man who recently realised I was in love with my straight best friend. I didn’t think anything would come of it and so I tried to get over him. However he recently described himself as “heteroflexible” to … Continue reading

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