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“Why do I keep having drunken sex with someone who isn’t very nice to me?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Perspective

I am a 28-year-old woman. For six months I have been involved in a sexual relationship with a man who does not value me. He is in the same social circles, so I see him frequently, and we only ever … Continue reading

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“Am I foolish to fall for a young Greek waiter?” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Perspective

Last August I went to Greece with a bunch of friends. To my amazement, a waiter at our local taverna made it clear he fancied me. The thing is he’s 27, while I’m 51. On the last night things escalated … Continue reading

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“I want to be a wife but nobody wants to marry me.” Proper Advice from a Psychoanalytic Viewpoint

I’m 28. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband … Continue reading

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